Before Elvis Presley was actually sent to Germany, while he was in basic training at Fort Hood, his mother, Gladys Love Presley died. Her condition seems to have come on suddenly, but maybe she was hiding it from her son. Elvis, who was afraid to fly at this point in his life, actually got leave and flew home to see his mother. She died soon after and his grief was profound.
Elvis has been called a Southern Mamma's Boy, and maybe it's true, but no Southern boy (me included) was ever ashamed of loving his mother! As an only child, the bond between Elvis and his mother was special.
The night I met Elvis, when I met Gladys and his father, Vernon Elvis Presley, and various members of his early entourage, his girlfriend Anita Wood, and George Klein and Cliff Gleaves, Gladys had asked me about my family. She said they also had kin in the Smokey Mountains. Showing interest in someones family and heritage was the Southern way. That night I told Gladys, Vernon, Elvis - everyone sitting at that dinner table - that my own mother had died when I was 16. The Presleys were sympathetic. So Elvis knew that I'd already lost my mother when he lost his. The understanding we had about that kind of loss is one of the things that bonded our friendship.
Maybe it was good that Elvis had so much to do in Germany, to divert his attention from his loss. Because he was already famous before he left the United States, he was given special consideration and allowed to live off base in a house where his father and grandmother joined him. Also along were a few of his employees who came from the states to be with him. Funny man Cliff Gleaves was one of the men who made a trip over at Elvis' request and on his dime to provide him company. While German fans lined up for autographs outside the house, Elvis was not too lonely when it came to women either. He had a few lovers there in Germany, some in relationships, some without. Some of his employees served to screen women or bring home ones they thought would meet with his approval. There was an understanding that Elvis had a type he liked, and any man who managed to introduce Elvis to a woman he would marry would have a feather in his cap.
Elvis has been called a Southern Mamma's Boy, and maybe it's true, but no Southern boy (me included) was ever ashamed of loving his mother! As an only child, the bond between Elvis and his mother was special.
The night I met Elvis, when I met Gladys and his father, Vernon Elvis Presley, and various members of his early entourage, his girlfriend Anita Wood, and George Klein and Cliff Gleaves, Gladys had asked me about my family. She said they also had kin in the Smokey Mountains. Showing interest in someones family and heritage was the Southern way. That night I told Gladys, Vernon, Elvis - everyone sitting at that dinner table - that my own mother had died when I was 16. The Presleys were sympathetic. So Elvis knew that I'd already lost my mother when he lost his. The understanding we had about that kind of loss is one of the things that bonded our friendship.
Maybe it was good that Elvis had so much to do in Germany, to divert his attention from his loss. Because he was already famous before he left the United States, he was given special consideration and allowed to live off base in a house where his father and grandmother joined him. Also along were a few of his employees who came from the states to be with him. Funny man Cliff Gleaves was one of the men who made a trip over at Elvis' request and on his dime to provide him company. While German fans lined up for autographs outside the house, Elvis was not too lonely when it came to women either. He had a few lovers there in Germany, some in relationships, some without. Some of his employees served to screen women or bring home ones they thought would meet with his approval. There was an understanding that Elvis had a type he liked, and any man who managed to introduce Elvis to a woman he would marry would have a feather in his cap.
The thing was, before he left several of us were under the impression that when he returned he would be marrying Anita, and well, things had changed for Elvis while he was in Germany, though they kept up a correspondence and she would be with us waiting for him in Memphis, just as she was there to see him off.
As a famous star who didn't shirk his duty, Elvis became the best advertisement for joining the army there was.
As a famous star who didn't shirk his duty, Elvis became the best advertisement for joining the army there was.
